BDSM Test: Find Your Roles in Percentages

This BDSM test asks how much you agree with short statements about leading, following, teasing, ropes and care. It shows a percentage for each of fourteen roles, from dominant and switch to pet and vanilla, on a chart, plus characters and a story that fit your result. Free, private, adults only.

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28 questions · about 3 minutes

Pick the answer that feels most like you, not the one you think is best. There are no wrong answers.

The 28 quiz questions

  1. 1.I like to be the one who sets the pace.

  2. 2.I relax when someone I trust takes the lead.

  3. 3.Leading or following, I enjoy both, depending on the person.

  4. 4.I like to tease until my partner runs out of patience.

  5. 5.When someone pushes my buttons, I enjoy calmly putting them back in their place.

  6. 6.I enjoy building suspense and watching my partner react.

  7. 7.A little intensity makes things more exciting for me.

  8. 8.I prefer things sweet, simple and familiar.

  9. 9.I like taking charge of someone and looking after them.

  10. 10.Being looked after and called good makes my day.

  11. 11.Ropes and knots sound fun to me, whichever end I am on.

  12. 12.Playful, agreed name-calling is part of the fun for me, giving it or hearing it.

  13. 13.Being in control makes me feel confident.

  14. 14.I like it when my partner sets the rules.

  15. 15.My mood decides whether I lead or follow tonight.

  16. 16.Breaking a small rule on purpose is half the fun.

  17. 17.I stay patient and amused when someone acts up to get my attention.

  18. 18.Keeping my partner waiting is something I enjoy.

  19. 19.I like a partner who is a little strict with me.

  20. 20.Being held still by a soft wrap or a tie sounds relaxing to me.

  21. 21.I would enjoy learning to tie neat, careful knots.

  22. 22.Checking that every knot feels comfortable is part of the fun for me.

  23. 23.A sharp, teasing remark in the right moment is my kind of flirting.

  24. 24.A partner who teases me with words, the way we agreed, gets my attention.

  25. 25.Being playfully put in my place with words, by someone I trust, sounds exciting.

  26. 26.I like being someone's favourite, with treats and a little fuss.

  27. 27.Taking care of a partner who loves my attention feels natural to me.

  28. 28.Closeness and comfort matter more to me than anything new.

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What does a BDSM test measure?

A BDSM test does not put you in a box. It asks how much each statement sounds like you and turns your answers into roles: whether you like to lead or follow, tease or be teased, tie or be tied, care for someone or be cared for. Most people score on several roles, and that mix is the interesting part.

This test is about preferences and dynamics, not acts. Nothing in it is explicit, and nothing you answer leaves your browser.

The fourteen roles

  • Dominant. Calm, confident, and happiest in the lead.
  • Submissive. Most at ease when someone you trust takes the lead.
  • Switch. Leads or follows, depending on the person and the mood.
  • Brat. Cheeky, playful, and testing every rule on purpose.
  • Brat tamer. Patient, amused, and never rattled by a little attitude.
  • Sadist. Enjoys suspense, teasing and keeping things intense.
  • Masochist. Likes a little intensity, and a partner who knows how far to go.
  • Rope bunny. Finds calm in being carefully tied by someone you trust.
  • Rigger. Patient, precise, and proud of every careful knot.
  • Degradation giver. Sharp words, a teasing smile and agreed limits.
  • Degradation receiver. Loves being teased with words, the way you agreed.
  • Pet. Affectionate, playful, and happiest as someone's favourite.
  • Owner. Protective, caring, and proud of the one you look after.
  • Vanilla. Sweet, simple and happiest with closeness.

How the score works

Each statement belongs to one role, or to two roles that go together. Strongly agree gives full points and strongly disagree gives none. Each role's percentage is how much of its possible score you reached, so the quick test and the full test are scored the same way. Your top percentage names your result, and the chart shows the rest. The quick test touches all fourteen roles; the full test separates close pairs like rope bunny and rigger more clearly.

All fourteen BDSM test results

Your result is the role with the highest percentage. Each one comes with characters who share it and a story idea to start from.

Dominant, drawn as a woman

Dominant

Calm, confident, and happiest in the lead.

Submissive, drawn as a woman

Submissive

Most at ease when someone you trust takes the lead.

Switch, drawn as a woman

Switch

Leads or follows, depending on the person and the mood.

Brat, drawn as a woman

Brat

Cheeky, playful, and testing every rule on purpose.

Brat tamer, drawn as a woman

Brat tamer

Patient, amused, and never rattled by a little attitude.

Sadist, drawn as a woman

Sadist

Enjoys suspense, teasing and keeping things intense.

Masochist, drawn as a woman

Masochist

Likes a little intensity, and a partner who knows how far to go.

Rope bunny, drawn as a woman

Rope bunny

Finds calm in being carefully tied by someone you trust.

Rigger, drawn as a woman

Rigger

Patient, precise, and proud of every careful knot.

Degradation giver, drawn as a woman

Degradation giver

Sharp words, a teasing smile and agreed limits.

Degradation receiver, drawn as a woman

Degradation receiver

Loves being teased with words, the way you agreed.

Pet, drawn as a woman

Pet

Affectionate, playful, and happiest as someone's favourite.

Owner, drawn as a woman

Owner

Protective, caring, and proud of the one you look after.

Vanilla, drawn as a woman

Vanilla

Sweet, simple and happiest with closeness.

What to try next

Want a second opinion? The kink test looks at ten tendencies, including explorer and romantic. To talk your result through with a character, open NSFW chat, or pick one of the characters on your result.

Exploring safely

Whatever your result, the same rules make it fun: everyone is an adult, everyone agrees, and anyone can stop at any time. Talk about limits and a safe word before you try anything new, and treat this test as a conversation starter, not a verdict.

BDSM test questions, answered

Is this BDSM test free?
Yes. The test, the percentages and the result page are free, and you can take the test as often as you like.
How long does the BDSM test take?
The quick test has 12 statements and takes about a minute. The full test has 28 statements and takes about three minutes.
Is the BDSM test anonymous?
Yes. The test is scored in your browser, so your answers and your result are never sent to us.
Can I see my percentages?
Yes. You see a percentage for each of the fourteen roles, a bar for each one and a chart of the whole mix.
Is this the same as bdsmtest.org?
No. This is an independent test made by Rabu AI. It uses familiar role names, but its statements, scoring and results are its own.
Do I need an account?
No. You can take the test, see every result and try a chat with a matching character without an account or an email. You need one to create a character or start a story.
Can I retake the BDSM test?
Yes, as often as you like. Press Retake the quiz on your result to start again with the quick or the full test.
Are my results saved?
Not on our side. While you take the test, your answers are kept only in your own browser, so you can pick up where you left off. They are cleared when your result shows. To keep a result, use Copy link or Download result card.
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Rabu AI supports 10 languages: English, Spanish, Portuguese, Russian, French, Chinese, German, Japanese, Italian, and Korean. Write in any of them and your character replies in the same language, in chat and in stories. Voice messages and videos speak it too.

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